Bestselling author and renowned professor Mary Karr offers a master class in the essential elements of great memoir—delivered with her signature wit, insight, and candor.Credited with sparking the current memoir explosion, Mary Karr’s The Liars’ Club spent more than a year at the top of the New York Times list. Mary Karr, The Art of Memoir No. 1 Interviewed by Amanda Fortini Issue 191, Winter 2009 For a writer who has shared herself with the public in three memoirs, Mary Karr is an extraordinarily elusive interview subject. In The Art of Memoir, master memoirist Mary Karr synthesizes her expertise as professor and therapy patient, writer and spiritual seeker, recovered alcoholic and “black-belt sinner,” providing a unique window into the mechanics and art of the form that is as irreverent, insightful, and entertaining as her own work in. Acclaimed memoirist and poet Mary Karr teaches ‘The Art of Memoir.’ Buy the book: in 1995 with ‘The Liars’ Club,’ Mary Karr. Mary Karr is an award-winning poet and best-selling memoirist. She is the author of the critically-acclaimed and New York Times best-selling memoirs The Liars' Club, Cherry, and Lit, as well as the Art of Memoir, and five poetry collections, most recently Tropic of Squalor. Karr is also a songwriter, having collaborated with Rodney Crowell, Norah Jones, Lucinda Williams and others on a country album.
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The Art of Memoir: Mary Karr
Think One
While writing Babybytes, I was both preoccupied and self-conscious about how to be as truthful as possible. The way I tell my story would have to be subjective- after all, I am telling it. How do I ensure it’s as true as I can? What pieces do I choose that create a whole? How do I write about others in my life, when anyone else who knows them may have other perspective on them?
The goal is to speak not with objective authority but with subjective curiosity.
Karr writes with authority on truth, using her own examples from books Cherry and Lit, but also comments on other authors who were accused of fabrication in memoir. I was relieved to read the contexts and analysis of the drama surrounding some ‘called out’ memoirists, and in painstaking detail. I came to see how there is simply no need to exaggerate a circumstance: our interior experiences are enough. The physical details and circumstance raise the stakes for the story, but most important is for the reader to identify with the inner struggle. That is where the human truths lie. They need to go back to their story from other points of view, and to find the blind spots. Self-awareness serves voice, but also truth.
Quote One
“[I feel awe] … for the rest of us, too, for the great courage all of us show in trying to wring some truth from the godawful mess of a single life. To bring oneself to others makes the whole planet less lonely.”
(Art of Memoir, Mary Karr, p. 218)
Do One
Mary suggests using cue cards to write down quotes, with name/source/page number. Then, later on you have a stack of wisdom for motivation, for speeches, for inspiration, for writing.
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Rhyme One
Wagon Wheel by Darius Rucker reminds me of this book. This song reminds me of when Karr says that you have to beam headlights onto a story and see what isn’t there at first glance. I also love the details – or as Karr says, the carnal details – these lyrics choose: dogwood flowers. A strong voice, and deeply moving. Two reasons I will seek to pick up one of Mary Karr’s memoirs, and revisit this song on my guitar.
Darius Rucker: Wagon Wheel
Heading down south to the land of the pines
I’m thumbing my way into North Carolina
Staring up the road and pray to God I see headlights
I made it down the coast in seventeen hours
Picking me a bouquet of dogwood flowers
And I’m a-hopin’ for Raleigh, I can see my baby tonight
Mary Karr Quotes Art Of Memoir
So rock me momma like a wagon wheel
Rock me momma any way you feel
Hey momma rock me